SUNKHAT
office ah seppihte lak a khat, Ashok Kumar kichi, toh thuvantaang khong ka
houlim khak uleh Haryana a lougam a neihdan uh a hon genkaai kha a, a’ lou ua
wheat, paddy khong chiing ahihdan uh hon gen hi. Hichi’n a hon geen kherkher a,
“...and we cultivate high quality paddy!”
Hiai a ‘High Quality’ a chih
chitchiat in ngaihtuahna hon khoihkha hi.
Zodawn a
lou-nna seem a kivaak khat kiang ah a kivaakna dong le’ng bang a hon chi dawn dia?
Lungkim chitak in a hon dawng diam, a’ik’eh kikhuat luailuai in lungkim chi
ngellou in a hon dawng maimah diam? chih khong ka ngaihtuah hi. Inn nupi khat
kiang ah nidang a na school kaaipih; na kimuhlouhna uh sawtpi hita khat toh
lamlak ah kituak phut unla, “Bang nna na
semta?” chi’n hon dongleh bang na chi dawn dia, ka chihleh, “Bangmah semlou! chi’n ka dawng di”, hon
chi.
Diklou ka
chikei, a dawn utdandan chu ama’ thu ahi. Khatvei ‘Human Resources and
Personality Development’ toh kisai Kolkata a ka training na khat uah mihing
lungput chi-4 a hon genkha ua:- 1) ‘You are OK; But I’m not OK’ 2) ‘I am OK;
But you aren’t OK’ 3) ‘You aren’t OK; And I’m not OK’ leh 4) ‘You are OK; And I’m OK.’ A lina kha
lungput dik ahi a chi ua, a dangteng kha duhthusam tunglou lungput ahi, a chi
uh. ‘You aren’t OK; And I’m not OK’ ngialngial bang chu ‘Nang na dikkei; kei le
dik tuanke’ng, a suaksuak suak heh!’ chia ngongtat a midang hinna khoih a,
mahni le’ng kidawm tuanlou a, atawp kitunte lungput ahi, chi uhi.
A tung a Inn
nupi’ kiang ah, “Kha-sum lohnei in nna
semkei mahlechin ‘Bangmah semlou’ kichi ke’nla; Inkuan khat enkol a nna
poimohtak seem ka hi. Tate mikhat suah dia nakpi a, ka hihtheihtawp a, pang ka
hi, kichi lechin dawnna hoihzaw hilou ding hiam? I sepna bangbang ah kithalawp
leh lungkim chitak in, positive attitude nei hile’ng Pathian inle hon
lohchingsak ut diak dia gingta ka hi,” ka chi hi.
‘Ei’ i diklouh chiang a midangte ‘dik-a’
kimu theilou. Bangteng in positive le ule kikoih khial khasek hi. I houpihnate
Positive attitude neitak a hon dawn chiang uale amau a kimuanngamna ompen
ensawi sese in, “a hon dawndan mawngmawng
kideihkhop na e, kithupisak na e, kiliansak na e...,” kichi khasek hi. A
kiliansak himhim le zaw a om tham na a. Mi' attitude amau’ thu ahi mai a, ei’
lungputpen dik photleh bangtan hiam ah i ngaihtuah le’ng tawldamhuai ding hiveh
aw. Ei’ lungput dik masa lebel mi’n a utdandan in hon dawngta ve uh, phamohlou
hi.
Nidang a
tangthu ka zaakngei khat, phuahtawm hia, hilou chihchu ka chiankei; hichidan in
a gen ua: Lei(bridge) lianlou khat ah
mi-nih hong kimaituah kha uh hiveh aw. Khat in kiliansakdeuh in, “Ka damsung in kuamah lampi ka awn ngeikei”
chi’n sawtpi khawl kha lehle poisalou ding bangkhop in a dinna ngei ah ding
leenlun hi. A khatpa-pen in bel awlkha in, “ke’n
ka awnzel” chi’n awn-geih a, hun sumang lou in a maban sawnthei hi. A koi
zawpen in attitude hoih/ healthy attitude neizaw hi’n na thei a? Kiniamkhiat
zek a atamzaw hoihna ding khualtheih kichi thil poimoh mahmah ahi.
“Keep your thoughts positive because your
thoughts become your words. Keep your words positive because your words become
your behavior. Keep your behavior positive because your behavior becomes your
habits. Keep your habits positive because your habits become your values. Keep
your values positive because your values become your destiny.” ~ Mahatma
Gandhi.
(c) Lian Suantak
@13/11/2013 – 10/12/2013.
